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CommentsCreate Sun Oct 16, 2005 2:39 am MST by Lakers Tickets
Open marriages. I too have broached that subject with my wife. It was an interesting conversation that is still laying somewhat unresolved for us. On one hand she readily admits to having no interest in lack of interest in intimacy. She know this and has written as much...on the other hand....for her that would have to be somewhat of a self-esteem blow? No? So it sort of sits unresolved. How did your conversation go? Did you initiate it with your husband? How did he react? Maybe he knows too that this is a better solution for all involved. I wish you luck and peace in your quest Alura. -dave Mon Jan 26, 2004 1:20 am MST by -dave
Hi Alura.. I was reading your comment re: 'open marriage'. How i wish i had your certitude. I would love to make such a suggestion, in my marriage. It could be an answer for everybody. For you, here???s to small victories! Keep us posted J My Lover often speaks of how ???society??? dictates that we have to be limited to loving only one person, for the rest of our life. Really.. ???Pick now, hope to hell nothing ever changes and you still like each other???and forever hold your peace???. Food for thought. I always thought my marriage to be strong. I always thought it would be forever. It sure goes to show you, when you wake up one day, and truly realize how different things have gotten. You've grown apart, your interests are different, and yes, there are 'no more little things'. Damn, i gave that up too. Yes, there are those that would suggest that you persevere, KEEP working at it, and honor commitment... but a mind and a body, and a SPIRIT, grow tired of being the initiator of unreciprocated attention. You find yourself slowing down until you've reached a stop, and an incredible state of indifference. It really is sad. Well, a little reality check confirmed that tomorrow is Monday - everybody wakes up early ! Goodnight to all??????. Nancy Sun Jan 25, 2004 9:15 pm MST by Anonymous
Hmmm? My husband does the lil' things too, and like your wife..sometimes it is hard for me to show the appreciation I should be showing. We lack so many other things essential in a strong marriage, that the lil' things just do not cut it any longer! So, completely on the other end of the spectrum, we have just recently, talked of opening up our marriage..just talk mind you,and we have made no decisions~but, we spoke of finding lovers outside our marriage. Now...that in itself, the fact we were able to say the words, without judgement, means we are either so strong in our relationship we will withstand all eternity together. Or we simply do not care anymore! I am lost. Looking for friggin' bread crumbs, or a neon sign here! I don't know...all I know is, if what you are doing, works and you are doing it with a clear enough head. Then kudos to both of you. Hugzzz~ Alura Sun Jan 25, 2004 8:21 pm MST by Alura
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