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    <title>A lovers diary</title>
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    <description>This is our account of our wonderful time together, the love we shared, and the lifelong friendship that was born.  In reality no one can know who we</description>
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      <title>Dave and Nancy - Getting INKED !!!!</title>
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        <![CDATA[Woohoooooooooooo!!!<br />
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Dave and i are getting inked tonight! .. How incredibly sexy is that!!  ... omg.. Tattoos together... VERY! :)<br />
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I figured .. pfff! .. why wait til my 40th - this is my 40th year.. good enough for me ! :)  This will be my first ... this is Dave's 2nd .. sexy man *wink*<br />
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Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh ....  i meet him at 8:00 tonight ..  we leave.. head to the apartment.. get ready to go out.. then off to the tattoo parlor..  daaaamn.<br />
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I adore him.  I love the  man that he is .. he is sensual - omg, ladies.. this man is an amazing lover - lucky me!!  Have you ever had a lover who's complete desire and focus is to please.. to explore my entire body??  I love his hands on me.., he is gentle, he talks to me.. he's interested in my thoughts, my dreams, my wishes - when i am sad, that weighs on him.. when i am happy - he beams! .. he is thoughtful, he is sexy .. he is so damn handsome ..  he loves all the things i do .. all that i give him, all that i do for him, is reciprocated.. ten fold.  He is soooooo sensitive ('oh no!! .. not a 'sensitive man' ?!!  YUP.. and he's aaall mine).<br />
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He takes me where i've never been before..  to a level of pure, intoxicating, blissful delight !<br />
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Do you know... he was in love with me, for a year, before i ever had a clue.... even before i even really knew him ..... can you imagine !?  I couldn't .. omg.<br />
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Wish me luck !! .. i hope it doesn't hurt too much :s .. *hehe*  O well.. nothing like a few glasses of fine Cabernet Sauvignon, to ease the pain *wink*.<br />
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O.... did i mention??  These two lovers are having a 'sleepover' tonight ;) ... I'm on top!!  (that's ok.. he likes me there..... hell, i like me there too!!)   Daaaaaaaaamn..<br />
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I love my sweet man!!<br />
Nancy <a href='http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=11498'>Read More</a>]]>      </description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2004 12:49:29 MST</pubDate>
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      <title>Calling Alura . . . come in, Alura . . .</title>
      <link>http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=11493</link>
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        <![CDATA[Dave and i are missing our friend ... Alura.. where are you, sister ?<br />
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Let us know you are well . . . !<br />
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Talk soon,<br />
Nancy <a href='http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=11493'>Read More</a>]]>      </description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2004 04:47:54 MST</pubDate>
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      <title>Daaaaave ... wake up!</title>
      <link>http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=10976</link>
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        <![CDATA[Empty <a href='http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=10976'>Read More</a>]]>      </description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2004 16:17:00 MST</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>jimithing</dc:creator>
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      <title>'In The Vault'</title>
      <link>http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=10962</link>
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        <![CDATA[Hmmm.. haven't said THAT in a while... ;)<br />
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'Caught yer attention, huh Dave..?<br />
<br />
*col*<br />
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Nancy <a href='http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=10962'>Read More</a>]]>      </description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2004 18:42:40 MST</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>jimithing</dc:creator>
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      <title>How tender is he...</title>
      <link>http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=10949</link>
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        <![CDATA[My Lover sent me his goodnight email tonight..  How incredibly sensual are his words to me.. "I love you completely".<br />
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Dave melts my soul..  how i love him for that.<br />
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Nancy <a href='http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=10949'>Read More</a>]]>      </description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2004 20:14:58 MST</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>jimithing</dc:creator>
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      <title>FLY, social butterfly.. spread your wings !!</title>
      <link>http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=10859</link>
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        <![CDATA[Hello everybody!<br />
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Part of the aiding factors in my failing marriage, is the lack of social exposure, over the years..  I'd decided a while ago, that i needed to give myself that... with or without my husband...... most times, it's without.  I don't beg.  Well, sadly enough .. not anymore.<br />
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So... my upcoming social events ... ?<br />
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This Friday evening - i'll spend with Dave.  Next Saturday night - this is tentative.. i'll be getting together with a bunch of great gals - food, wine, no men, no kids :)  I have a retirement party to go too as well.. one of the fellas i worked with - that will be a blast... i will see people there too, i've not seen since i stopped working (1998).  On the last of this month - i will spend that entire weekend with Dave - most wonderful!!  On March 5th, i am meeting up with my very best girlfriend from highschool, PLUS two of our best buddies - i cannot wait to see those guys - it's been 20 years!! :)  On March 20th - a party with my regular 'work' group - from when i worked at .. (can't tell you *wink*).. as a Technical Writer.  I adore that bunch - they are truly comforting to me.<br />
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Alura... I too will indulge in a night of 'elegance'!! :)  This lady so needs to spread her social butterfly wings...!!!  :)<br />
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I need a vacation too........!!!!! Can you hear Cancun calling me... ?  'Naaaaaaaancyyyyyyyy ...' .. damn ;)<br />
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Best wishes to everybody!<br />
-Nancy <a href='http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=10859'>Read More</a>]]>      </description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2004 10:57:26 MST</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>jimithing</dc:creator>
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      <title>SPEEDING TICKET !!!  *grrrrr*</title>
      <link>http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=10842</link>
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        <![CDATA[(Ya.. it's ME.. like y'all didn't know! hehehe)<br />
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Well .... goodmorning!!! :)<br />
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Damn :s<br />
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CAN YOU BELIEVE IT ??!  A friggin' speeding ticket!!!<br />
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As soon as i passed the cruiser.. i knew, i just friggin' knew it! - although.. he was just a blur *hehe* ..just kidding!! ..it wasn't that bad.  He was young, i flashed him.. *hehe*.. it took my fine down from $120. to $65 *phew!* .. hehe ... she's got '72 hours' :s.  Shit.  My husband isn't too thrilled... but HEY!!.. it gives him something to talk about.. and i'm all for 'communication'..... !  Run with the ball, i say.<br />
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So... Alura.... Is my vehicle looking any more appealing?  *lol* .. pick you up Friday at 7 :)<br />
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Talk later.......  i've got some online banking to do :s<br />
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I think i should see Dave tonight... :)<br />
-Nancy <a href='http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=10842'>Read More</a>]]>      </description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2004 11:01:03 MST</pubDate>
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      <title>Thanks for holding down the fort Nancy</title>
      <link>http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=10823</link>
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        <![CDATA[Damn.<br />
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My writers block is relentless.  I'll start something and it just doesn't sound right.  Scrap it.  Restart.  Fuck it I am going to bed.  Anyway, I need to find away to tap my creativity again :s<br />
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All in all I am doing okay.  I spent one night at home on the weekend.  My wife had plans on Saturday night, so I gladly scooped up the opportunity to look after the kids.<br />
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Actually, I am heading there shortly for the same reason.  Overall I think my stress level has been reduced greatly.  I still have anxieties about the future....but hey, that's what therapists are for.<br />
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See you when I see you ;-)<br />
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-dave <a href='http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=10823'>Read More</a>]]>      </description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 Feb 2004 11:11:16 MST</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>jimithing</dc:creator>
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      <title>(8) 'Warehouse' ...</title>
      <link>http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=10822</link>
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        <![CDATA['LIVE AT CENTRAL PARK'<br />
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..... and you have to play it loud :) .. just feel that music !<br />
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'Warehouse'<br />
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o I'm leaving...<br />
This Warehouse frightens me.<br />
Has me tied up in knots,<br />
Can't rest for a moment.<br />
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Soon I'm Going...<br />
I'm slipping slow away<br />
Hoping to find something better than<br />
I've got inside here<br />
And the Warehouse slips away...<br />
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Hey reckless mind<br />
Don't throw away your playful beggining<br />
You and I will fumble around in the touches<br />
And be sure to...<br />
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Leave all the lights on<br />
So we can see the black cat changing colors<br />
And we can walk under ladders<br />
And swim as the tide turns you around and around<br />
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Hey we have found<br />
Becoming one in a million<br />
Slip into the crowd<br />
This question I found in the gap in the sidewalk<br />
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Keep all your sights on<br />
The black cat changing colors<br />
We can walk under ladders<br />
And swim as the tide choose to turn you<br />
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And here I sit<br />
Life goes on, end of tunnel, TV set<br />
Spot in the middle<br />
Static fade, statistic bit<br />
And soon I'll fade away, I'll fade away<br />
<br />
This I admit<br />
Taste so good, hard to believe an end to it<br />
Smell touch feel<br />
How could this rhythm ever quit<br />
Bags packed on a plane<br />
Hopefully to heaven<br />
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Shut up I'm thinking<br />
I had a clue now it's gone forever<br />
Sitting over these bones<br />
You can read in whatever you're needing to<br />
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Keep all your sights on<br />
The big bad black cat that's<br />
Changing colors<br />
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It's not the colors that matter<br />
But that they'll all fade away<br />
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This I admit<br />
Seems so full<br />
Hard to believe an end to it<br />
Warehouse is bare<br />
Nothing at all inside of it<br />
Walls and halls have disappeared, they've disappeared<br />
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My love I love to stay here<br />
My love I love to stay here<br />
My love I love to stay here<br />
My love I love to stay here<br />
In a corner was wondering...<br />
If a change could be better than this<br />
And then I worry<br />
Maybe things won't be better than they have been here<br />
Here in the warehouse<br />
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At the Warehouse<br />
How I love to stay here<br />
At the Warehouse<br />
Every man and woman get alive<br />
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That's our blood down there<br />
Seems poured from the hands of angels<br />
But trickle into the ground<br />
Leaves the Warehouse bare and empty<br />
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My heart's numbered beat<br />
Still echo in this empty room<br />
Fear wells in me<br />
But nothing seems enough to defend<br />
So I am going away...<br />
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... "and i hope yer all havin' a gooooood NIGHT !.... Daaaamn.."<br />
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Damn..... she loves him ;)<br />
-Nancy <a href='http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=10822'>Read More</a>]]>      </description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 Feb 2004 10:41:23 MST</pubDate>
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      <title>Mussels anyone ... ?</title>
      <link>http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=10821</link>
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        <![CDATA[Hello everybody! .. Happy Monday!! :)<br />
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Dave had a meeting this morning.. at my husband's work site..  He had the office right beside my husbands.. :s  Damn..<br />
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It looks like they'll be going our for beers on Thursday night ... i guess i get him on Friday ;)  I can't wait!! <br />
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Alura - How does 7ish sound for drinks and mussels...??<br />
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Talk soon!  .. i have an afternoon to myself!! :)  Wish i could say i was meeting Dave.. but alas, i need to get productive around here.. I have laundry crying out my name .. "Cooomiiing !!" ..... geeeeze.<br />
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-Nancy :) <a href='http://ouraffair.blogeasy.com/article.view.run?articleID=10821'>Read More</a>]]>      </description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 09 Feb 2004 10:12:34 MST</pubDate>
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